Struggle is a real part of intimate relationships. Most couples have no specific tools for resolving conflict, creating alignment, and prospering together.

Husbands Jason Blake and Philip Steinbacher share a set of tools they have evolved over the years to help maintain and grow a healthy relationship. Some of these tools are reminders of best practices heralded by the best marriage and family therapists in the world. Some are pulled from classic self-help practices. And some have been developed through hard practice and trial and error.

What Works For Us is the couple’s gift to others who are seeking a blueprint for making things work in their relationship. More than 20 years together in happiness is possible with some work. What Works For Us, they hope, is a catalyst for finding what works for you.